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SOULMATES LOVE QUIZ
 Am I Ready for Soulmate Love? Quiz 
There are times in our lives when we need to focus on ourselves and times when we're genuinely ready for the commitment of loving relationship. This quiz will help you determine whether now is a good time for you to find your soulmate -- and whether SoulMates is the right matchmaking site for you.
For each question below, ask yourself and answer honestly:
“Does this sound like me - and the type of person I'd like as a partner?”
Am I Ready for Soulmate Love? Quiz
1 I already enjoy a full life yet wish for a wonderful partner to share it with. My soulmate will be the "icing on the cake" of my already great life!
2 I'm not in a rush to find a partner but it would be great. I'm tired of lousy relationships and would rather be alone (all one) than settle for less just to settle down, anymore!
3 I am dedicated to personal growth, creativity, making a difference, and living lightly upon the Earth. I strive to live consciously and compassionately in all that I do.
4 I am emotionally, sexually and maritally available. Specifically, I am unmarried and not involved with anyone sexually or romantically (even a friend). I am willing to be less sexual, to run my creative sexual energy in other ways, and/or to satisfy my own needs until my right partner arrives.
5 I am financially stable with a credit score of 620 or higher. Whatever my source of income, it generally meets or exceeds my expenses, and I feel good about what I do with my time and the contribution I make to the world. I work in my “right livelihood” or am moving towards doing so. I am creating the life of my dreams.
6 I desire a romantic relationship that is committed, heart-centered and joyful. I value honesty, monogamy, true intimacy and healthy communication.
7 I can honestly say that I love me. I know I am a lovable, valuable person and I know that the right person will appreciate and celebrate me, as I will him/her. I am open to receive and give love fully and joyfully with my right mate.
8 Spirituality is important to me and I regularly engage in some spiritual practice (prayer, meditation, ceremony, being in nature, yoga, service, community, etc.) I see relationship as a path to spiritual awakening and personal transformation.
9 I value my relationships with friends and family and intend to maintain these bonds even after my partner arrives. My soulmate will support me in this and will connect well with the people who are important to me. While I will certainly include my mate in my hobbies and social circle, I enjoy a balance between time with my mate, time with others and time with myself.
10 Most of the time, I am already in love - with life! I wake up smiling or happy more often than not.
SCORING:
7 -10 apply to you
Yes! You are ready to find your soulmate! While you realize that you are not “perfect” (whatever that is!), and you still have goals for personal improvement, you have already done a lot of work on yourself and are committed to a healthy, loving relationship to enhance your already wonderful life. SoulMates Matchmaking can help you find a partner with a similar level of consciousness, so go ahead and get started!
YES! I'M READY FOR MY SOULMATE!
6 or fewer apply to you
"Your task is not to seek for love,
but merely to seek and find all the barriers
within yourself that you have built against it."
- Rumi
Sorry, we don't think we can help you find your soulmate right now so please do not sign up. But take heart. We may have resources that can help you become more prepared for higher love. Or maybe you just need a different site. Read details below.
6 or fewer and you said no to Questions 1, 2, 3, 4, 7, 9 and/or 10
It's likely that you are not quite ready to find your soulmate and would do well to deepen self-love and healing first. If we try to “fast-forward” to finding our mate before we have done the necessary self-healing work, the relationship doesn't work out. We don't want you to invest your time or money into mate searching until you are prepared for your soulmate. If you are married, get some relationship counseling, or, if you've already tried this with no success or your partner is not willing to do so, get individual counseling to help you make the choice that is best for you. An affair is not going to solve your problems. If you are in an unsatisfying sexual or romantic relationship, you need to find the clarity and inner strength to either improve the relationship or to let go and let God (the Universe) bring you a love that is much more joyous, beginning with the love of yourself and life. You need to take time to learn to love being with yourself, to discover your own needs, desires and to celebrate who you are. Healing, counseling and relationship coaching can give you the support and tools you need to prepare for love and become in love with life in the process.
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6 or fewer and you said no to Question 5
We recommend you focus on career, prosperity and creativity first so that you will have a good sense of self when you do meet your mate.
Click here for more about success coaching
6 or fewer and you said no to Questions 6 and/or 8
We suggest you find an online dating site that matches your own values more closely, such as a site that appeals to polyamorous or alternative loving communities, or non-spiritual sites such as one of the “millions of members” sites. SoulMates is specifically for people who value spirituality, monogamy, healthy communication and personal growth. Best of luck to you!
Whether you are single and need to focus on yourself, single and ready to find your mate, or you're in a good relationship that you'd like to take higher and deeper - to sacred partnership - they key is to become your own soulmate first. The love we have been seeking has been within our own hearts, all along. When we are literally IN LOVE WITH LIFE, we both radiate and attract love. We cease needing a partner and, paradoxically, this is precisely when we can effectively attract one. Two people who "fall in love" are under the influence of powerful chemicals which, research has shown, will influence their thoughts, feelings and behaviors for up to a year. To avoid being misled by physical attraction, neediness, or the brain chemicals of infatuation, it is essential that you love yourself and your life already, that you are very clear about what you desire in a mate and are willing to be alone until you find it.
Every day, every moment can be filled with love, no matter who is loving us or not. When we live life in this way, when we set our intention for our ideal soulmate to find us in the perfect time, and when we take action steps that resonate with our hearts toward finding our soulmate, the spirit of love will infuse all we do, and we will find the love we seek.
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“The most enlightened prayer isn't, 'Dear God, send me someone wonderful' but, 'Dear God, help me realize that I am someone wonderful.”
- Marianne Williamson
“It is not enough to stare up the steps. We must step up the stairs.”
- Vaclav Havel
“Even our material success comes from our ability to love and have compassion, comes from the capacity to experience joy and ecstasy and to share it with others.”
- Deepak Chopra
"We all must learn to give ourselves the love we want. Then other people can love us And it feels satisfying Because it is not filling a void. It becomes love dancing with itself."
- Gay & Kathlyn Hendricks
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